Each judge is different and many times, i feel it is based on luck if you meet a judge that is in your favour. I had one male (non chinese) judge who asked me "are you sure what you have written down here are all true?", as if doubting me. And I have also met a female judge who would say things like "don't worry, even non-physical violence, you can explain and tell your side of the story how he was emotionally and verbally violent".
I just find all of these tiring and wasting of alot of time and energy amist the divorce proceedings. I also have to work full time and take care of the children and also my maid. Maids are frequently a vomit blood issue but we need their help too. Such a dilemma.
On my ezcema, I ate frog porridge previously and it took me close to a month to get better. The skin around my elbows were affected so I had to wear long sleeves now to cover.
Back to strict diet again.